Hi, Rachel,
I am still thinking about that as I believe I've missed the point.
I approach religious beliefs a bit differently than most. I do not look at it from a perspective of whether a particular tenet or belief is "right" or "true." Rather, I look at it from "it can be observed and empirically documented that this person states a given belief or creed is true. Given that person avows the truth of the given belief, what impact does that have on her/his behavior?"
A very rational approach.
I'm not sure it actually addresses all the topics being discussed in the thread, however!
A problem we often run into is positions being espoused on issues that aren't really defined, or at least articulated, or whose definitions are themselves self-contradictory (or there may be a disagreement as to whether they are self contradictory or not).
Some years ago our small Episcopal Church was going to be looking for a new rector, and a committee had been commissioned to develop a questionnaire to be given to the members to probe their wishes and outlooks, the results of which would help to inform the quest.
After we had many of the obvious issues covered, I said, "You know, many Episcopalians consider their 'denomination' to be 'Protestant', and many consider that it is not. That has a lot of ramifications on the 'tone' of the church. I suggest we ask in the questionnaire what is the outlook of the respondent is on that issue."
There was a great uproar, with several people saying, essentially in unison, "Kerr, you're crazy. There is no uncertainty about that. It would be a silly thing to ask."
"Yes, of course", said 'Bob'. "Everybody knows that the Episcopal denomination is 'Protestant'.
"No, no, Bob", said 'Dick". Everybody knows that the Episcopal denomination is 'not Protestant'."
The discussion then devolved into an argument over whether or not that matter was controversial.
The question was not included in the questionnaire.
The secretary of the meeting just shook her head, and noted the discussion.
Five years later, she was Senior Warden (essentially president of the congregation), and I married her.
Best regards,
Doug